(And why this reframe could change your entire fertility journey)Most women trying to conceive are living like the sperm.
➡️ Rushing.
➡️ Proving.
➡️ Performing.
➡️ Hustling for their baby like it’s another achievement to earn.
But your egg?
She’s not hustling.
She’s not on a productivity plan.
She matures slowly, floats down the fallopian tube, and waits.
She’s magnetic. Receptive. Soft.
And it’s the sperm that races to meet her on her terms.
That biology isn’t random, it’s a blueprint for fertility.
One that most high-achieving women have completely inverted.
Because we’ve been taught that if you just work harder…
Track more. Control more. Micromanage more…
Eventually, your body will cooperate.
But that’s not how your nervous system—or your fertility—works.
When your body is under pressure, it prioritizes survival over reproduction.
All that pushing?
It can actually signal to your system that it’s not safe to create life
- Fertility doesn’t respond to perfection.
- It responds to regulation.
- It turns on when your body feels safe enough to receive.
And I know this isn’t just theory—this was me.
I was the spreadsheet queen.
Doing everything “right.”
And still not pregnant.
It wasn’t until I stopped trying to earn fertility…
And started embodying a whole new frequency…
That things started to shift.
So let me leave you with this:
If your egg isn’t hustling… maybe it’s time you stopped too.
Because softness, slowness, and stillness?
That’s not laziness.
That’s fertility.
Want more truth like this?
Listen to the full episode now — link in bio or search Fertile Frequency wherever you podcast.
Tell me in the comments — which part hit hardest?
